frequently asked questions

I offer sessions in Melbourne and on the Gold Coast, usually from Tuesdays to Saturdays.

Other weekdays and times are sometimes available upon booking.

I take a $100 non-refundable deposit to secure and hold your session time for you. Bank and payment details will be forwarded to you upon booking.

The balance in cash is appreciated at the beginning of your session. Optionally, you can deposit into my bank account before you arrive.

Sessions are priced for upfront payment before your sessions begin.

Yes, Invoices are available upon request.

A non-refundable deposit is required to book your session.

Your deposit can be transferred to another booking with a minimum of 48 hours’ notice. If Rita needs to cancel your session and the rescheduled time doesn't work for you, you'll receive a full refund of your deposit.

We are covered by Professional Indemnity and Public Liability insurance.

Please arrive on time, as there is no waiting room and it is not always possible for me to receive you before your appointment starts time. If you're running late, please inform me via text message. Session durations can't be extended if delayed as there might be clients scheduled after you.

I highly recommend you check my ‘All Services’ page in detail, as my services are sensitive and it can be important to understand what each of them can offer to you.

I highly recommend a 3 hours booking for your initial session. This will allow for a 30- 45 minutes conversation about Tantra and the body gateways that are used during the session. We also need time to discuss your intentions and boundaries with tranquillity and presence.

Most importantly, some processes cannot be rushed and the nervous system takes time to relax and switch to parasympathetic mode.

Tantric Massage (TM) does not focus on any outcome or goal. The emphasis here is on presence, arousal, deepening pleasure, relaxation, and moving life-force (or sexual) energy through the body and up to the chakras.

TM is a very intimate and nourishing experience shared with your therapist, accessing your essence through the portal of touch and pleasure. There is communication that happens without words, transmitting wisdom and remembering the body of its infinite potential.

It is also important to understand that what you will get from TM will be closely related to the level of openness, surrendering, and especially presence that you are willing to give to this experience.

- Learn how to receive

- Access deeper and more powerful levels of pleasure in your body and daily life

- Assists with (re)connecting yourself with your body in a conscious, sensual and loving way

- Build capacity for longer, full-bodied orgasms, including energy (or dry) orgasms

- Feel more love and a feeling of relaxation in your daily life

- Having a safe space where deep parts of yourself can be expressed open-heartedly, with safety, nourishment, and celebration

- Awaken and discover new types and ways of orgasm

- Can assist with cases of vaginismus, anorgasmia (absence of orgasm), chronic UTIs and thrush, hormonal issues, loss or excess of libido, and more scenarios

- It can also assist with cases of erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, loss or excess of libido, and more scenarios

- Increase and expand your creativity, as this originates from the sexual chakra

- Allow yourself to experience your daily life with more life-force running through you, which means more power for co-creating a reality from an aligned place and with higher levels of energy!

I invite you to bring along your intentions and also to be conscious that your body does not have agendas. The body’s pace is usually slower than the mind’s expectation, particularly if there are emotional or mental blocks held within.

Other than this, you will receive suggestions sent to your e-mail upon your booking confirmation.

Allow yourself to have some slow time after your session to integrate and go gently.

* Please note this is a professional therapeutic service and not a sexual service.

Gold Coast sessions are held at my private studio in Tugun, Gold Coast.

Melbourne sessions are offered on a visiting basis. Please enquire about upcoming availability.

The frequency of the sessions is very individual and it depends on various factors, especially when working in conjunction with Tantric Psychotherapy. Some of the factors that can interfere are your intention and willingness, the state of your nervous system at the moment, your lifestyle, your dedication to your tailored homework, and especially our therapeutic conversations during the evolution of your treatment.

It is important to allow time in between for the body to integrate the sessions completely. If you are tuned into your body, you will know when you are ready for another visit.

Yes, naked for the bodywork part of the session, on a mattress, oils used.

Yes, I am dressed in my massage wear all the time.

No, my studio is private.

My services are always discrete and confidential.

One-way touch, no kissing, no oral, no intercourse.

Yes, a common reason for my clients who are committed to long-term relationships or marriages to come and explore Tantra is to become better lovers for their partners.

During a Yoni massage, your boundaries and consent are utmost, and the session progresses entirely at your pace. Your boundaries might evolve during the session, and I strongly encourage you to communicate any changes with me.

Usually, a full Yoni massage includes both external and internal touch. However, it's essential to note that Yoni massage can also be performed solely with external touch, adapting to what you and your body feel comfortable with and are prepared for at that moment.

I will always work within your boundaries. If you prefer not to receive touch somewhere I will always respect.

Tantric Massage usually feels good and relaxing, but discomfort can arise if there is tension, energy blocks, or stocked emotions… this is all welcome and will be looked at.

I prefer not to wear gloves to be able to feel the delicate tissues and temperature when connecting with the Yoni.

However, there are specific situations when I will use non-latex gloves: if there's an active STI (which should be disclosed in your Intake Questionnaire), during menstruation, or upon client's request.

Yes, you surely can. To me, this is one of the most beautiful and powerful times to receive this treatment, as your energy field will be more open and your intuition more attuned. The body also becomes more sensitive to touch, which can greatly enhance your sacred experience.

The main question is if you will be able to relax, or if you could be experiencing cramps during your session. If so, I recommend rescheduling to a time when your body feels comfortable and ready to receive a Yoni massage.

I will be wearing gloves during your Yoni massage and you will still greatly enjoy it.

I encourage you to check when your next period is due when making a booking.

Rescheduling bookings is possible up to 48 hours before the scheduled appointment, allowing your deposit to be transferred to the new booking. Please note that changes made with less than 48 hours' notice will result in the loss of the initial deposit unless extreme circumstances are proven to happen.

No, this is not the intention of the session. Tantra is about cultivating, circulating and CONTAINING sexual energy inside the body. When you ejaculate you project this energy outside of you.

There is the possibility of experiencing orgasms and full-body orgasms without ejaculation, called dry orgasms. However, this is not the goal of the session either.

There is no judgment or shame if a client accidentally ejaculates, especially when working with sexual dysfunctions.

The Tantric Massage itself will already be moving a great amount of energy during your session, which can be a lot to take in just by itself. Adding prostate massage brings significantly more energy and stimulation, as it sits right at the root chakra of a male body. This extra amount of energy can become overstimulating for a first-time massage, but the decisions and boundaries are always in your hands. Whatever the choice, remember it must allow for presence and especially relaxation.

If you decide to have prostate massage included in your first session, I highly recommend booking a longer session to allow the body to relax and every part to be covered with the deserved attention and care.

Yes, non-latex gloves and lubricant are worn for hygiene safety.

Great sex starts with the relationship you have with your own sexuality. Being a good lover is about your ability to be present, feeling YOURSELF, and connected to your partner, not only about techniques.

Tantric Massage is about how intimate you can be with your own soma. It is about how deep you can feel your body and surrender to its infinite possibilities of pleasure and expansion. The level of connection and intimacy that you can have with a lover is the same level of depth that you can have with yourself.

By getting more connected with your sexual energy you will open new possibilities in this universe, which will reflect in your relationships.